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In the 1970’s, I
was caught up with a whole generation of young women who embraced
the ideals of classical feminism better opportunities in the
workforce, equal pay for equal work, and greater encouragement of
women’s abilities. When the United Nations proclaimed
“International Women’s Year” in 1975, I was a 19-year-old sophomore
at the University of British Columbia in Vancouver, Canada. Our
campus advertised the slogan “WHY NOT?” to commemorate the event.
To me, “WHY NOT?” evoked a challenge to dream big and work hard to
reach my potential, and I enthusiastically distributed pamphlets and
lapel buttons advertising the slogan.
But somewhere
along the way, feminism began to betray its noble ideals and turned
divisive and destructive. Rather than extolling women’s abilities
and opportunities, feminism began promoting women as helpless
victims of an evil male conspiracy. Instead of encouraging
partnership between men and women, feminism began pitting the sexes
against each other in an ever-escalating gender war.
Now, most women
refuse to identify themselves with the feminist movement. They
support the ideals of classical feminism, but want nothing to do
with today’s movement.
All this has
created a vacuum of purpose in North America. Classical feminism
earned women the right to achieve. Now women are longing for it all
to mean something.
This poses a
crucial question to Christians, “How, then, shall we respond?”
THE SECULARIZATION OF FEMINISM
I believe that
the spiritual void created by feminism provides an unprecedented
opportunity for evangelism. To be relevant in reaching out to
post-feminist women, I think we need to understand the spiritual
shift that preceded the decline in feminist philosophy.
Feminism’s
earliest roots were rooted in biblical principles. Many 19th
century feminists were Christians, whose concern about human
suffering and oppression inspired their passionate crusade for
equality and justice.
Eventually the
efforts of the founding mothers of feminism won changes for women
such as the rights to vote and own property. Laws regarding
marriage, divorce and child custody were made more equitable.
Feminism was
revitalized in the 1960’s and 1970’s in North America, attracting
young women like me. As baby boomers who entered adulthood at a
time of unprecedented prosperity, we were blessed with more choices
and opportunities than were available to our mothers a generation
earlier.
Feminism
resonated with this generation of young women. During the 1970s, the
movement focused primarily on promoting more opportunities for
women. However, the movement’s philosophical foundation was no
longer based on biblical principles. Unfortunately, the church had
never taken on a very active role in addressing injustices
concerning women.
In the midst of
this spiritual vacuum, feminism became completely secularized,
motivated primarily by the desire for self-fulfillment.
As the psalmist
said, “Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labor in vain”
(Ps. 127:1).
It didn’t take
long for the seeds of secularism to bear fruit. By the 1980s, the
majority of feminist leaders and writers were insisting that for
women to be truly free, they must emancipate themselves from
marriage and motherhood. They promoted the idea that there is
something intrinsically evil in masculinity that causes men to enjoy
oppressing women. Antagonism escalated towards the Christian and
Jewish faiths, and goddess worship became popular in feminist
circles.
Though feminism
is often promoted as the bastion of liberty and self-fulfillment, in
recent years the movement has fostered bondage, emptiness and
brokenness.
FILLING THE VACUUM
Disillusioned
with feminism yet still longing for the sense of purpose that
attracted them to the movement in the past, many women have turned
to New Age spirituality and self-help gurus to fill the spiritual
vacuum.
A survey of 2500
women, published in the August issue of Redbook Magazine, found that
61% said they believe the key to happiness is “spirituality.”
The fact that
women are searching is encouraging. The fact they are searching for
truth in all the wrong places challenges us as Christians to become
more relevant in communicating the gospel.
I believe there
are two key reasons why many women shun Christianity. First, many
mistakenly equate Christianity with dead religion, having grown up
in homes where religion was merely a Sunday ritual. That was my
experience. I was raised in a church-going family, but never heard
the good news that I could have a personal relationship with Jesus
Christ. In my college years - hungry to connect with God but
believing I had already “tried” Christianity I became immersed in
New Age philosophy. Then, at the age of 24, God sent a young couple
to me who shared the good news that I could know God personally
through Jesus Christ. Instantly, I knew this was the truth I had
been searching for during my unsatisfying sojourn through New Age
spirituality.
The second
reason why many women shun Christianity is because of real or
perceived injustices concerning the church’s treatment of
women. Somedenominations still perpetrate the idea that women are
created to be nothing more than a domestic appendage to their
husbands. In many churches, no place is made for the expression of
women’s spiritual and leadership gifts. Some even teach that
biblical submission includes accepting domestic abuse.
Several years
ago my co-worker, Sharon, said, “I could never accept Christianity
because it advocates the abuse of women.” She shared how her
ex-husband quoted scripture to her while beating her. When she
sought help from a priest, Sharon was told that she must submit to
her husband, regardless of how he treated her.
No wonder Sharon
believed that Christianity was a “repressive, anti-female
religion.” I gave Sharon a Bible and said, “The Jesus Christ I know
would never advocate the abuse of women. But instead of taking my
word for it, why don’t you read about him in the gospels and decide
for yourself?” She accepted the challenge, and within a few months
received Christ as her Savior.
Theological
debates won’t reach women today. Only Jesus can penetrate the myths
and religious lies. The simple gospel message of forgiveness,
healing, freedom and destiny is what spiritually hungry,
post-feminist women long to hear.
What do women
want? Our occupational goals and personal hopes and dreams will be
as diverse as our personalities. But whether we are doctors,
stay-at-home mothers, lawyers, ministers, housewives, secretaries,
or artists - I believe that women from all walks of life share two
basic heart longings. We long to be free from inner oppression.
And we long to for asense of purpose, to know that our lives our
making a difference.
Jesus said, “He
has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of
sight for the blind, to release the oppressed...” (Lk 4:18).
Each one of us
can testify to one of more areas of our lives where Jesus has
brought inner freedom. Women aren’t as interested in our theology
as they are in real life testimonies of Jesus touching our lives and
setting us free from fears, self-doubt, emotional pain, bitterness,
and inferiority.
Women will also
be touched by our testimonies of how Christ leads us on a journey of
discovering and fulfilling our purpose. Our God-given potential is
released as we mature in Christ. One of my favorite scriptures is
Ephesians 2:10, “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ
Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do”
(Eph. 2:10). As we daily surrender to Jesus, he transforms us and
molds us into vessels that can contain his anointing. And he
releases us into a destiny that is far greater than anything we
could dream for ourselves.
What wonderful
news we have for spiritually hungry, post-feminist women. And never
has there been a more opportune time to share it. |