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In the late eighties I was involved in starting multiple churches in
Southern California. We had a strategy that focused on communities
where thousands of new homes were being built and hundreds of
thousands of people were relocating to establish a new life for
themselves. The ramp up time from landing in a neighborhood to
launching a Grand Opening worship service was somewhere around three
months.
We
ambitiously believed that God would help us land, birth, grow and
reproduce a church in roughly one to three years, a season which we
called a ‘life cycle”. And, by God’s grace, support from other
churches, hard work and some flesh-inspired ambition we saw numerous
churches celebrate their Grand Opening with great fanfare. Some of
them even became nationally known mega churches, but not most.
However, at the same time that we celebrated, some of us who were
“on the streets” realized that we were leaving behind many of the
people whom we loved and had started a journey of faith together.
These friends... simply didn’t comprehend what in God’s green earth
we were doing!
For
these Sojourners, Church was not Sunday mornings and Sermons; it was
meals in homes, discussions about Jesus and connecting at the local
parks. The expectation that we would suddenly morph into this other
THING seemed strange to them, and so they declined to participate
and waited for us to turn back into ourselves again, but we didn’t.
One
man that I befriended during those years was a vice-president at a
financial institution. He carried a lot of responsibility at work
and his wife picked up the pieces at home. We began meeting around
simple Bible discussions and then he joined a men’s group that met
in my home on Saturday mornings. In those meetings, he came alive.
He expressed that God was doing something in his life that he didn’t
understand, but thought was good. He wanted to experience more.
With his family he agreed to have a Bible study meet in his living
room and even serve red punch to children in his white-carpeted
family room. When it came time for our Grand Opening worship
celebration, he came once and then stopped. We never heard from him
again in a substantial way.
To
be sure there were other circumstance surrounding his decision to
pull away from the new church, but I couldn’t help learning the
lesson of authentic spirituality at this point in my journey as a
church planter. I’m afraid that what we promoted as godly activity
and celebrated as a Grand Opening of a church was nothing more than
an item for me to check off my “to do” list. Thankfully, I’m seeing
a more organic, spirit driven approach emerge that honors the
process we all need as we learn to follow Christ together.
I’ve
described this more relationally real pattern of starting churches
in terms of a “life cycle” that begins with Submerging which moves
to Emerging and settles into Converging before Submerging again.
The process is not as neat and clean as these three steps would
indicate... there’s a lot of overlap, but it describes something of
the journey of the Church Planting leaders I’ve met in Seattle and
other parts of the world as they form a faith community that emerges
out of true friendships and loving relationships.
To
unpack this alternative life-cycle a little more, here’s what I’m
seeing:
Submerge :::
This
begins with a leader and a few friends, maybe a family with some
connections, kind of like the way Jesus sent the 70 out into the
countryside of Judea while traveling toward Jerusalem. The
co-laborers who submerge become an Incarnational presence in their
neighborhoods. Whether they submerge in an actual geographic
neighborhood or “relational neighborhood” like a college campus or
gym is not the issue, they are experiencing the joys and agony of
being with those whom we live.
In
the process of knowing the people who share life with us, we also
become known. When we submerge we are converted by our culture just
as our friends are converted to Christ. WE in fact become more like
Jesus, not less in the process. Going deep into relational
connections we offer, I believe, two significant gifts to our
“neighbors”. Through our intentional activity of being the hands
and feet of Jesus we offer the gift of conversation and the gift of
convening gatherings.
Emerge ::: :::
Through the significant relationships formed in culture a faith
community begins to form and have a public presence. The band of
friends begins rise, emerge, with their culture communicating with
words and deeds that easily translate the Gospel message into the
heart language of the “neighborhood”. One church planter I know
began gathering friends together to hear Seattle street musicians
and artists perform. Not all the Artists presented a Christian
message, some aren’t Christ followers, but the community now enjoys
a monthly gathering of their extended family of 70-80 friends in the
basement of a church where they hang out and listen, talk, drink
coffee and do life. The good news, believe me, is not that they get
to hang out in the basement of the church listening to music. The
Good News is Jesus present in their gathering.
The
emerging church, the community of faith becomes known in their
neighborhood almost as much for their choices as the life they
experience together. People begin to see choices that represent
investments in what is good and honorable. Artists, athletes,
parents and students find ways to connect with one another around
shared ambitions and even celebrate their relationships
Emerging is as much about blessing the neighborhood as it is
becoming known in any public way.
Emerging churches know enough about a neighborhood to be a
blessing. Often church planting activities start with the
assumption that we can scientifically know our demographic group and
then provide services that attract people. While some leaders find
that approach satisfying, the vast majority of new church leaders
I’m close to find much more diversity in the lives of people they
are reaching than any demographic profile would support.
Converge ::: ::: :::
As I
see it, faith communities that come together through this process of
Submerging and Emerging, never entirely leave this tension of
ministry. They always experience the tug between what is now and
what will become, between worldly culture and Kingdom life, between
sanctification and glorification, between having enough and needing
more. It’s just that at some point the faith community, the New
Church is strong enough to sustain their mission from within
culture. They thrive while in tension.
Convergence is not finally arriving, but rather a place in a
church’s existence where they understand and can articulate God’s
unique call for them as the Body of Christ. The mission is
sustainable and recognizable and becomes reproducible, not because
the have “stuff” to give away but perhaps because they realize how
much of the harvest is still untouched by their community.
It
is the realization of distance geographically and relationally that
creates a new tension among some members of the faith community to
submerge again. Sending members to reach more people, to gather
more sojourners, to discover what Jesus is doing will lead
communities, I pray, to multiply where they are and to the ends of
the earth.
Where are you in the process? Do you hear the breath of the Holy
Spirit calling you to be the Body of Christ for people who only
think they’ve heard the Gospel? Do you hunger to express the Gospel
in words and deeds for people who have learned to ignore the
church? I do. I hope I get it right someday. Until then, I’ll
have to learn to trust God with my attempts to get it right. |